Sleepy Baby

I feel like I’ve been slacking these past few weeks. My house is not nearly as spotless as it usually is and to top it off, my hair is falling in chunks! Welcome to the glamorous postpartum life.

I also feel like I am not doing this mom thing as great as other mothers are doing it. My baby still co-sleeps with me and as much as I love it, I don’t love it too. I want him to sleep in his pack and play SO badly but he just doesn’t seem to like it, or maybe I don’t like it because I don’t get much sleep when he sleeps in there.

This past week, I have been putting him in his pack & play to sleep in at nights and he doesn’t do too bad in it. He still doesn’t sleep through the night but that’s the thing with breastfed babies, they wake sometimes not out of hunger, but just because they want to comfort nurse. I remember the two nights he slept in his own bed, I was zombified the next day at work. But, I’ll need to push through because actually, I feel bad that I am not teaching him to be more independent. He would probably even love it too if he sleeps on his own.

When I was on maternity leave, as much as I was obsessed with breast milk, I was obsessed with sleep training too. And, when babies are that small, it really is hard to train them or to feel like you have to put them on a schedule because they are still so very small. I read a book on instilling healthy sleep habits with baby and I remember thinking to myself, “Ok – This should be a piece of cake”. I was wrong.

However, I need to be dedicated to doing this right for him and for all of us. He has such a beautiful nursery which our friends and family help contribute to setting it up, it will be a waste if it doesn’t get used. Also, we need to transition from postpartum life as quickly as we can to regular life (now with baby) for the structured family we are.

Wish us luck!

7 thoughts on “Sleepy Baby

  1. Chin up momma, it get’s better…or so I’m told. My oldest co-slept with us until she stopped nursing (16 months). Dev co-sleeps, and I definitely feel where you’re coming from. It would be good for him to be independent, but at the same time, with breastfed babies, it’s hard. Your little one is gorgeous, your family is beautiful, and it will get better!

      1. He’s six months old. And it depends on what hours you consider night! On a good night, he can sleep from 2200-0300 uninterrupted. But most of our nights are spent with him either attached to or close by my boob. Luckily I found a way to comfortably nurse lying down, but we’re working on having him sleep in his crib. ☺️ He doesn’t protest sleeping in his crib. I just miss him too much and keep him next to me. 😂😇 and again, I’m writing this as he just nursed himself to sleep. 😊

      2. Yes, I have mastered the lie down side boob nursing position. LOL. It hurts my back when I do that every night and have to switch sides constantly. Ah, the things we do for our babies..

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